Miserable After Cheating On Him

Here is my story.

I am a 26 year old woman, I am pretty and I have a really nice and secure job.

Four years ago I married my husband for love.

He is a very sexy man and he likes women a lot. I knew this before, but I guess I thought that after we marry he will become a new man, besides I was madly in love with him and he was with me too.

We lived very well. Of course we had our arguments like every other normal family, but we always found ways to solve all our problems.

Recently though, I started noticing this specific sparkle in his eyes when he scanned young girls. And they will in return look him over. At the beginning I was amused, I was proud with him, it was a nice thought that I own him, that he is MINE. But I guess I overestimated my capabilities to have him only for myself.

To cut the long story short, I understood in a second that he was cheating on me. I went crazy!

Is He Deceiving Me?

My name is Nneka and I live in Owerri in Imo state. I saw this blog and decided to ask this question that has been eating me up for months.

I am in a Relationship (or so I think) with this really great guy and we’ve been going steady for almost a year now. I work at the bank and that’s where we met. I haven’t really had any reason to doubt his commitment to me until one weekend, about 2 months ago, I asked that I come visit him at his house instead of the usual weekend getaways at the hotels or my place and he totally said NO!

Why would he refuse me to come to his house???

I’m beginning to hear rumors about how he impregnated a girl and was mandated by his family to marry her, that his long time girl friend has just returned from Italy and has moved in with him, that he has moved out of his old apartment and doesn’t want me to know where he lives now… stories like that.

Friend or Rival?

I am 38 y. old and happily married for many years. We have two wonderful children. I have a problem that many wives have, so I would like you to help me with advice.

My husband has a childhood friend who married 3-4 years after us to a woman I can briefly describe as the dream woman for every man - pretty, with nice body, kind, helpful, etc. I also liked her. We are family friends for many years.

My husband is not a womaniser, but he’s the type that doesn’t pass on an opportunity. He keeps family and family values close to his heart and with few exceptions we haven’t had problems with the opposite sex. Recently, I’ve been consumed by a secret jealousy, which sometimes makes me behave abnormally and that really bothers me.

Should I Tell My Wife?

I am a worker in my church and I'm happily married for a number of years.  Sometime last year, one girl joined our church and somehow we got talking and became friends. I find myself enjoying every little time I spend with her.
She’s a really nice girl, great sense of humor, witty and fun. She reminds me so much of my youth.

We became really close as we could no longer deny the attraction between us. In fact my new enthusiasm for church has made my wife raise an eyebrow, but then, that’s all she did. I wish she had done more maybe I wouldn't have gotten this deeply attached to this girl!

Attracted To A Man Who Isn't My Husband

Please, I want to remain anonymous.

Everything started when I least expected and what happened was something that I could never imagine happening to me!

I was at a company party! Dancing, laughing, alcohol and right now, everything seems fuzzy. I don't remember everything, but I remember enough to have occasional images coming up in my mind that are making me smile

... Images full of passion and in which I strongly desire a certain man. I am positive that if he were here and if it were to be the right time, we would be doing it again.

I have been married for a year and a half, but the man from that other night was not my husband, but a colleague of mine. I can't stop thinking about that! I am trying to figure out why it happened and I keep getting to answers that are not giving me any peace!

I am assuming that everything is because I have only been with one man my entire life; my wonderful, loving and serene husband; the only man that I want to be the father of my children!

How can I Make My Wife and Mother- in- law Stop???

I am 5 months old into marital life and it has been a smooth journey so far but there can never be a perfect relationship as we all know. What has been baffling me in this marriage so far is that whenever there is a misunderstanding between me and my wife, the next thing is to call her mum who then talks to me on the issue...
Though she has never been biased in settling issues between us whenever there is an issue she is been involved with by her daughter.

The bottom line is that it is a situation I never liked and I have tried several times to put a halt into this but she never yielded to my concerns on involving her mum in our marital issues whenever there is a case to settle. 

My Wife Has Become A Thorn In My Flesh!

The purpose of my writing this now is to seek advise, else my mind imaginations and anger within can make me make my unwise wife pay dearly. I love my wife dearly and I cannot say of her, but she's always loving when we are on good terms...


The few people I have asked what if they are the ones have said their minds, I want extensive opinions, hence my writeup.
My wife pride has made her do things and she still feels ok with. I thank God she's not even a graduate for now, else no one would have been able to control her pride. Naturally she's always bitter, but I try to be in her good books, but lately, I found out whenever we have an argument and disagreement she makes food for herself alone, so for like two weeks, a housewife living with her husband has not asked him what to eat for breakfast whatsoever. How do I pay this kind of woman back, I have so many imaginations and ideas popping up in my mind, how best to deal with her everlasting, though, this her singular act can never make me forgive her, because, for a woman to feel its her right not to make food in whichever guise, to me its an unforgiving sin, I know wives shouldn't do that, but ill mannered ones can do, the price such should have paid should not only be divorce, but..Shes presently pregnant for me, our first child, I dont even know if I am cursing or something, but I dont wish her better sha....I can already see the future from this little acts.