Should I Tell My Wife?

I am a worker in my church and I'm happily married for a number of years.  Sometime last year, one girl joined our church and somehow we got talking and became friends. I find myself enjoying every little time I spend with her.
She’s a really nice girl, great sense of humor, witty and fun. She reminds me so much of my youth.

We became really close as we could no longer deny the attraction between us. In fact my new enthusiasm for church has made my wife raise an eyebrow, but then, that’s all she did. I wish she had done more maybe I wouldn't have gotten this deeply attached to this girl!

Funny thing is, this girl at church seems very comfortable about our relationship knowing that I’m married. I know cheating on my wife is wrong but this girl reaches deep inside me and makes me do things that I never knew I could do! Every moment I spend with her makes me wonder if I’d made a mistake marrying my wife.

I love my wife, honestly, but I feel she has given up on trying to make our marriage beautiful. She’s a good wife but I want more than that. Marriage goes deeper than cleaning, food and housekeeping. Do you know that when I get home most days at about 8pm, my wife is already in her granny night gown, in bed and fast asleep! We don’t talk much anymore except its about housekeeping, school fees, allowances and all those other boring house talk. One day I told my wife to get dressed that I wanted to take her to a party (this was around 7pm ) and she said it was witchcraft!

This is my life having meaning again. I look forward to everyday because I know the girl at church will be there. When I’m with her, I feel like I’m ascending the heights to the heavens; she makes me that happy.

Then again, back home just one look at my wife’s face reminds me of how much I’m being unfair to her and it sinks my soul to hell…